Anxious!

I am so anxious right now. I was fine all day, but this evening I got anxious again. I think I am stressed about several things.

- My mentally ill sister
- Painting and moving
- Money
- Sleep!

Ever since I started having trouble sleeping again, I have been getting more anxious. And of course it has been worse since my sister went off the deep end.

I am anxious that my sleep problem will continue. Right now, I am able to sleep about three hours on my own. With 10 mg Ambien and severe exhaustion, last night I slept four hours straight, woke up, and went back to sleep for two more hours. I would say that it was four hours from Ambien and two hours from exhaustion. But I cannot use Ambien every night.

Nevertheless, today I picked up Ambien CR (at no small expense... holy cow), which is suppose to help you stay asleep. My prescription is for 12.5 mg. I will try it tonight.

Using Ambien only makes me more anxious. I am planning to use it tonight but not tomorrow night. I guess I will see how I feel tomorrow night. First night in a new room. It is hard to decide between getting enough sleep (even if it means medication) and not becoming dependent on medication to sleep (but possibly not sleeping well and getting sicker). For now, I would like to take medication some days and risk it on days when it is not totally crucial or when I have had enough rest the night before. The problem is that when MS is acting up, every night is crucial.

One thing that makes me anxious about sleep is that I have no control over it. Sure, I can try to "turn my brain off" and just stare at the darkness inside my eyelids, but when my brain is not able to sleep, no amount of effort can make it. Doing the same thing might be successful one night and not the next. I can have great sleep hygiene and identify everything I think might be bothering me yet still not sleep. Other times I can be extremely stressed out but sleep fine.

It is the same way with other MS symptoms. I can be really busy and do okay, or I can be wiped out after an hour. Or before I start! I can forget my medicine and not have pain, or I can be hurting and wondering if my medication stopped working.

Well... I cannot be really busy all day and be okay. But the variability is confusing. It makes me doubt myself.

Today I had a pop-fzzt in my right ear, followed by a sudden decrease in hearing accompanied by increase in tinnitus, which got better over few minutes. The pop-fzzt sounded kind of like a match lighting or sparkler lighting. I have not had that in a long time--maybe since last summer. My tinnitus has been up and down since then but no fzzt or hearing decrease. It was not much; I would guess 5 dB.

Wow, sleep really was the biggest thing bothering me. Just now when I thought about the four stressors I listed, I do not have a tense feeling thinking about my sister. Painting and moving, kind of, but I do think it will work out tomorrow. Money... well, yes, but not the tight/hot feeling in my chest like when I began writing this. And sleep? I have changed my thinking about it. I realized that for now I need to take the medication, I can keep trying without it, and it will wax or wane no matter what I do.